Soul MaTE... 2 LITTLE words..One BIG Concept
A person with whom you have a strong affinity...(dictionary meaning)
A belief (so deep) that someone , somewhere is holding a key to your heart.. and incase of women also a key to your dream house.. sounds so simple.. all you have to do is find them...
So where the hell is this person... really.. where is he...
and if you love someone.. and it doesnt work out.. does it mean.. that he was not ur souldmate and just a runner up contestant in the game show "LIfe" round "Happily ever After""
There is so much presure to have one.. and the scary part is.. it seems that its coming from within u... one can still fight peer pressure / social pressure / parental pressure.. but what does one do about pressure from within...
SO I WONDER... Sould mates... peace of mind.. or pain in the neck...
I feel the pressure comes from your perception of a soulmate (which comes from society and faulty learning) And who you actually want ur soulmate to be...
If we look at it from a narrow point of view then a soulmate is the ultimate person you wnat to spend ur life with HAPPILY EVER AFTER,, the one who understands u.. respects u.. and this list can really get long...
MY DISCOVERY ABOUT SOULMATES...
Yes it doesnt hurt to have a soulmate (that person with who u share everything)
For me.. its not just one... there can be many..
My family / my friends...
and I am lucky to have that connection with my family and friends..
and what i need then is.. just this great guy to have fun with...
there problem solved...
So soulmates do exists.. and if u feel u havent found one.. look around...they have always been there in the form of a cool mom, who doesnt judge you.. a loving kid brother you loves u no matter what..a dad who'll do anything to just make you smile.. a friend who will put up with all ur tantrums because she accepts u just the way UR... an old neighbour (who u can chat with for hours even after a long gap) . an office colleague... (who you have endless chats during lunch time and otherwise)..or some stranger you've been chatting for years online...(who understands ur mood by the font who choose to type)
So Contrary of popular belief.. soulmates are easy to find...
You just have to change the way you look at those who are already There...
ive found many.... ur one....
ReplyDelete" love " , " soul mates " , hmmmm ,
ReplyDeletereminds me of a conversation I had with someone one day... My memory is poor ,but it went something like :
Everyone is meant to have a soul mate ...
That's like written in stone !(apparently)
someone whom will fulfil all the personal criteria that one has been imagining ,wanting , dreaming , ect ...one that will compliment the other 100 % and all the extras .... ( if you get the picture ) And be 100 % blissed
Now the big question is When ?
And my wise friend replied ( and the twist in the tale ) is " It's a question of CHOICE "
One can wait all one's life and will certainly meet one's soul mate . even if it means 5 min before death - but will surely meet the person . and be 100% happy
Or...
choose -
choose not to wait that long and to engange with someone less than 100% , say someone that will meet 90 % of what one is looking for , then one will be 90 % blissful .
It's a question of choice !!
As says my friend ....
that friend of yours really sounds BRILLIANT!!
ReplyDeletewell said.. doctor.. its a question of choice.. and u and me are still waiting..
the thing to also remember is .. we may not end up with our soulmate ALL THE TIME... we might have a partner (which one can choose based on the theory of you talented friend!!!!!)
and look around for soulmates in the regular people around us, who we take for granted...
like how you and your friend are each others soulmate... you have to see it in that light..
hope to hear more from you..
cheers
Parveen