On Love!!!

Love....
I have observed and seen and I guess read a lot of things written about love... and i have found almost everything about love to be true..
shahrukh said:"if all is not well then it’s not the end" (I guess in om shanti om) personally i havent experienced anything remotely close to that when it comes to love.. and I am more willing to belive that Shahrukh (or the writer) always had happy's ending's..
I suppose i think about love more than anyone really should.. and I am always mesmerized and constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and change my life.. every time it did happen to me...
I think it was Shakespeare who said LOVE IS BLIND.. now this is something I have experienced to be true..
Love has been different to different people..
For some.. love is happily ever after (adjustments and frustrations included)
For some love just fades away
For some love is just lost
And for some .. love is also found again (even if its for a night)
And there are some .. these few people.. who experience the cruellest kind of love... the kind which kills (almost) all its victims... and its called the UNRECIPROCATED / UNRETURNED / UNREQUITED LOVE... of which I am an expert!!
Stories about love are about people who fall in love with each other.. but what about the rest.. what about their stories ..the ones who fall in love ALONE!!
They are the victims of the one sided affair.. the brutally assaulted ones . the unloved ones ...
My thoughts on love are for those who have willingly loved and have been cursed to suffer...
However negative this may sound.. but I know that this group truly loves... and its research that people who truly loved are more likely to love again!!!
When we are growing up. We are taught a number of things about love... things like
If someone needs u.. they love you...
If you miss them u love them
If they obsess over you they love u...
If they are dependent on you they love you...
And someday you will meet a wonderful person and have your very own happy ending... blah blah... blah..
Every movie we see,,, every song we listen to .. Pushes us to wait for this happy ending... the suspense,, the third act twist... the pleasant surprise... the unexpected declaration of love....
Sometimes we are so focussed finding our happy ending, we don’t learn to read the signs..
How to tell from the ones who want us to the ones who don’t...
To the ones who’ll stay to the ones who’ll leave ...
And maybe for someone of us, this happy ending doesn’t include a person... Maybe its you on your own... starting all over again. Preparing for something better to come along...
Maybe the happy ending is to just move on...
Anyway after the long prelude love to me is
Something I’ll never lose hope on....
And for me the happy ending is this..
Knowing that through all the waiting , the unreturned messages / calls / , through all the blunders .. misread signals... blindness..
Through all the pain, the embarrassment and broken heart...
I’ll NEVER GIVE UP HOPE !!!!
I will love again........