Hope floats
I cannot blame writers block to my laziness anymore.. so for
all who wanted me to write regularly.. this is for you.. Finally out of
inertia...
Because some of you were so desperately HOPING for me to
write again... I couldn’t think of anything else but HOPE... which most of the
times can be the choice you make after CHANGE...
And my life and actually its true for almost all of us .....
IS ALL ABOUT CHANGE...
When we experience change.... we have our family, friends,
well wishers telling us... THAT EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR THE BEST....
But
What they are actually trying to tell us is, that what we didn’t want to happen has
happened.. and we have no choice, but to
accept and deal with it...
Which is obviously is the most logical thing to say... but then the fuck up is... its not that easy... All of us have experienced change... for the good or in some
cases for bad as well.....
- Some of us with lot of strength accept it and deal with it as advised..
- Some of us don’t... and get into denial mode... and ignore... and get depressed.. and etc etc..
- Some of us... (ME) act as if they have accepted the change and are dealing with it in the most effective way.. but in reality it’s not what it appears to be...
People like me (if
they are any of my kind existing) hold on to what they didn’t want to change
(even if the change has done good) and dwell
on it forever... going back and forth and just torturing themselves... out of
personal choice!! Refusing to come out of the comfort zone even if its better
otherwise... denying themselves happiness... because of their inability to take
risks...
And in my case... (I am the third and the most deadly
category) by the grace of god, change has always done me good)..... So why didn’t
I let HOPE FLOAT!!!
My job is a lot to do with hope... making individuals see what’s
possible, believing in themselves, taking action and achieving their dreams... .......
and I have done this for 12 years...
I am a sucker for
positivity and hope... in the way I speak, talk to people.... even on my
facebook status... and yet... I didn’t HOPE.. didn’t practice what I preached
and advocated so strongly... And the worst part is I didn’t hope... but believed and
acted as if I did...
So I thought why don’t...... I do what I say, Act as per my belief .... that Hope Floats .... For everyone in every condition ... whether it is
- · Dealing with a terminal illness
- · Waiting for the right diagnosis for your condition
- · Dealing with a broken marriage / relationship
- · Waiting to finish your studies and finally start your life..
- · Adjusting to a new city... new job...
- · Accepting things when they go wrong...
- · Trying to make someone understand what you feel for them...
- · Healing your broken heart and soul... again and again and again....
If there is hope... life moves on... there is something to
look forward to every moment you breathe.. Sunrise gives you energy... sunset
gives you patience to wait for tomorrow.
I know... it’s easier said then done... But the thing to
remember is hope doesn’t just sit there like a stone.. it has to be made...like
bread.. remade all the time fresh and new....
And I can do this .... if I have the intention to see the
possibilities what life has to offer... have the courage to believe it will happen..
and the self esteem to not settle for anything less than what I deserve.....
And not to forget...there is something else which also
floats ... more on that later ;)
Love always
P